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		<title>Test For Echo</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2010/06/07/test-for-echo/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 15:29:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quite by accident I&#8217;ve hit on a strategy where I can test someone for the presence of a trait or &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2010/06/07/test-for-echo/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=359&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>One Long Moment</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 07:35:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sitting in a bar on a weekday night in a city I don&#8217;t know well. The place is starting &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2010/02/04/one-long-moment/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=272&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Bad Experiences and Wishful Thinking</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/12/14/bad-experiences-and-wishful-thinking/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 17:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I Think I am Going to Become a &#8220;Dog Lady&#8221;&#8230; So I read this post this morning (I actually got &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/12/14/bad-experiences-and-wishful-thinking/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=216&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Reflection &#8211; Need A Little</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/11/20/reflection/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[LOL I read this post Black And Female: Destined To Be Single? and responded there. Typically I was left wondering &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/11/20/reflection/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=209&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Forewarned is&#8230;?</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/10/21/forewarned-is/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 13:14:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://stevenalleyne.com/?p=198</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A while back I was out with a friend who told me, &#8220;People will tell you all about themselves on &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/10/21/forewarned-is/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=198&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Different folks, Different Places, Different Rules, and other Game Changers</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/09/06/different-folks-different-places-different-rules-and-game-changers-pt-i/</link>
		<comments>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/09/06/different-folks-different-places-different-rules-and-game-changers-pt-i/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 02:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wanted to get this out of my head before I Iost it completely&#8230; as in went nuts. No, no, &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/09/06/different-folks-different-places-different-rules-and-game-changers-pt-i/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=183&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Roles versus People – Objectification on both sides of the fence</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/08/06/roles-versus-people-%e2%80%93-objectification-on-both-sides-of-the-fence/</link>
		<comments>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/08/06/roles-versus-people-%e2%80%93-objectification-on-both-sides-of-the-fence/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 20:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In: Ray LaMontagne – Be Here Now In the course of corresponding with a woman on an online dating site &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/08/06/roles-versus-people-%e2%80%93-objectification-on-both-sides-of-the-fence/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=157&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Bombs Away &#8211; The sweet, sweet, smell of failure</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/06/29/bombs-away/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 20:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This story Bad Decisions / Rolling Mistakes reminded me of when I totally bombed on connecting with a lady at &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/06/29/bombs-away/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=142&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Note to self: Things not to do when prepping for a date the same evening</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/05/28/note-to-self-things-not-to-do-when-prepping-for-a-first-date/</link>
		<comments>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/05/28/note-to-self-things-not-to-do-when-prepping-for-a-first-date/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 04:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trim your hair.  On head.  Not to be confused with item 3. You could really screw this up and there &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/05/28/note-to-self-things-not-to-do-when-prepping-for-a-first-date/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=127&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Proximity, Density + More on Dating Sites</title>
		<link>http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/05/24/proximity-density-more-on-dating-sites/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 19:41:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hmmm&#8230; things have been kinda slow with the blog. I&#8217;ve had a thousand ideas for topics then due to multiple &#8230;<p><a href="http://stevenalleyne.com/2009/05/24/proximity-density-more-on-dating-sites/">Continue reading &#187;</a></p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=stevenalleyne.com&amp;blog=7041104&amp;post=115&amp;subd=stevenalleyne&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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