As soon as they detect that the guy they’re talking to isn’t going to be “The One”, they shut off and focus on the next guy that might be “it”.

This is probably the biological reason for the evolution of “game”. The whole point is to trick women into believing you’re whatever she’s looking for so she lives up to her romantic potential.

Just a few episodes of getting a completely different reaction from chicks before and after they see you as a potential boyfriend is enough to make guys understand how important that distinction is.

It also becomes obvious, like when you’re in a place where women go SPECIFICALLY to meet rich guys and you don’t come off as rich. You can feel how they’re ignoring you, because they’re on their golddigging grind. Of course, when they find out that YOUR BOY is rich and you’re there hanging out with HIM, all of a sudden, they want to be your best friends. By that point, it’s too late for them to be treated respectfully, because they’ve already made it known to you that they’re trying to use you.

Basically, women should train themselves to be nice to guys they don’t want to date. They’d get a lot more stuff done for them that way. The problem with that technique is that guys are so unused to women acting decently towards them (at least, in NYC) that if a gal IS friendly, it’s taken as a sign of romantic interest instead of the fact that her way of being or demeanor is just different from what you’re used to. So, for women, being a jerk is a naturally-developed preemptive defensive action, which generally serves them very well.

Angry Dude
The expectation from women is that if they give a hard no or friend the guy instead they’ll get Angry Dude. Y’all know what I’m talkin’ ’bout. Right? Angry Dude is the guy that’s letting the non-brain, doesn’t handle rejection well, end of his body do the thinking all the time, or at least in that moment, is completely unaware he’s doing so and thinks calling a woman a b*tch or sending her a nasty-gram is an appropriate response to not being able to realize his physical happiness through her.
If having to deal with that scary, self-esteem hammering, crap is a possible outcome of, “hey, let’s just be friends.” then it’s no wonder chicks cut and run as quickly as they do.

It’s definiltely “will imposition”, but it’s not prosecutable. It’s bringing all of your skillz to bear on achieving what you want. It’s going beyond what chicks BELIEVE you’re going to do to get in their panties. It’s living in an area outside of their consciousness while relating to them on terms they can comprehend and digest. Nobody gives a damn how their day was, but you ask anyway. Nobody cares how nice the weather is today, but you stop her on the street to say that anyway.

It’s absolutely will imposition, because we’re not stepping to chicks and telling them they look good and we want to do this and that to them. We’re deciding what we want and then tactically getting them to give it up. But that’s the game. The “Best Guys” get the best girls. Period. If you’re not the best in something, you have to develop techniques to out-best the best.

I used to hang out with guys that were “broke than a mug”, like BROOOOOOKE, like can’t afford a bag of potato chips broke, and through gift of gab or dressing style or being a great dancer or keeping their Caesar hooked up, they had girls left and right. If you have girls, you have money… THEIR money. Whether that comes from a cashier’s job or food stamps doesn’t matter.

The guys with the best game were able to make lives for themselves out of thin air… out of nothing at all. Meanwhile, you had guys bussin’ they azz to be executives and make money that can’t pull a girl to save their lives, like LITERALLY, they wouldn’t be able to get laid if their actual life depended on it and they spend their days wishing they were the broke dude with the fat-assed chick on his arm.

I figure my night’s already a partial success if I’ve had one or two good laughs. Other than that it helps to have a sharp wit or have knowledge of something most people would be interested in, e.g. – have you seen Watchmen, Coraline, do you have a neat hobby like stamp collecting? – I kid. Else, you could just talk to women like the freakin’ captain of industry that you are – like you have something to say and they need to listen. The right attitude can get you places!

Otherwise, like Thin Lizzy says in The Boys Are Back In Town, “If she don’t wanna know, forget her”. Shrug.